Author: ameenoo4n@gmail.com

  • About

    I’m pushing 50, but inside I still feel about 12, only now I’ve got more kids to play with (who often call me Mum). Life’s busier than ever, but that odd, bouncy, childlike feeling has settled into something unfamiliar… which I’ve slowly and comfortably learned to call home.

    I’ve always lived on the edge of every circle: work, family, community, even life itself. I don’t quite fit in, and to be honest, I don’t really want to. Think of me like a woodpecker: I’ll pop my head in now and then, but never for too long.

    My buzzing mind and lack of consistency make me reliable in just one way, I will get bored! And when I do, I’m as good as gone. If there were ever a competition for giving up, one that recognised honesty and effort in short bursts, I’d be a champion. No doubt about that!

    This blog is for the in-betweeners, the floaters, the quietly chaotic, and the wonderfully inconsistent, anyone who’s ever felt a bit on the edge of things, and decided that’s exactly where they belong.

  • The land of Dependence

    Today, almost anything can be had and at toxic levels beyond imagination. But what business owner is going to say to a customer, “Please sir, one more could seriously ruin your health”?There’s a lack of moral compass, occasionally spun by politicians like an ‘on and off’ switch.

    In recent years, though, the ‘on’ button seems to have disappeared. Perhaps those were the years when public opinion still mattered, at least a little.No animal chooses to hunt when the catch is easy. But what kind of life does that create?Obesity is at an all-time high, along with a cascade of related medical conditions. Still, the wants continue.

    Welcome to the land of opportunities.

    A dream fantasised by those in less affluent nations, a dream so compelling that some risk capsizing just to reach it.And when they don’t make it, the loss echoes a familiar tale from the days of slavery. Only now, the victims are drawn not by force, but by hypnotic promise of the land of opportunities.

    “Get rich or die trying”

    A romanticised hit. A fantasy.

    But maybe it’s time to optimise those opportunities:The super rich are few. The middle class are sinking in quicksand.And the rest? So long as Maslow’s basic needs are met, so is their dependence.

    There are no hunters here!

    Opportunity is the bait. Dependence is the trap.

  • The Ripple Effect

    “Please don’t throw that stone,” I shout.

    I am overly anxious, raising a high-speed train of a child with no tracks in sight.

    Then, I step back and exhale in relief. No one is hurt. We stand together and watch the ripple effect: the ever-expanding circles in the water, created by the stone he threw.

    “You’ve just created a ripple effect,” I say, crouching beside him to share the moment.

    “Oh wow, that’s beautiful,” he replies. “Can I do it again?”

    And just like that, we all join in, copying his action, each of us tossing stones into the lake. It’s beautiful. The way light hits the water, how stone meets surface, and the resulting ripples glisten and dance. Water and light merge in nature’s quiet magic, almost like a glimpse of heaven.

    A new family sport is born: who can create the biggest ripple?

    Through this blend of beauty and background anxiety, hoping no one gets hit by a stray stone, I’m trying to teach him something. Not through textbooks, not through the national curriculum, but by finding a way into his world.

    This is my moment. To join him. To teach while the window of wonder is still open. Before he loses that spark – that natural curiosity.

    Because feeding a curious mind isn’t about forcing it into a one size fits all box. That’s like trying to squeeze into shoes that don’t fit. Uncomfortable, awkward, and eventually damaging the longer you walk init.

    Later, I sit with my boisterous boy and talk about the bigger ripple effects in life. The ones our actions create. Some are obvious, whilst others lie hidden beneath the surface – deep, dark waters that can disturb everything around them, even the unseen.

    As Isaac Newton, once said: “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”

    You see, my son’s high-speed impulses affect all of us. Sometimes the result is joy. Other times, I want to dive under the water and hide. But instead, I speak to him, about the subject of life.

    Because what better time to teach than when he’s open and tuned in?

    And I offer these lessons from a loving place and at a loving a pace he can receive.

    With all my love,

    Uma love.

  • The Dissected Pieces That Can No Longer Be Called a Whole

    Welcome to the 21st century — The Family!

    Have you noticed how everything in life seems to have been dissected from its whole?

    The child from the village.

    The village from the tribe.

    The tribe from its nation.

    Every whole missing its piece of the jigsaw.

    The Cow.

    Once, you had your cow —

    the one that gave you milk, yogurt, butter,

    and eventually your meat too.

    Let’s not forget the tiny bacteria

    that now come packaged in prebiotics

    we’re told to buy —

    along with the vitamin D

    our cells cry out for.

    The Sun.

    Yes, even the sun,

    apparently now has a price tag.

    The phrase “daylight robbery” was once metaphorical.

    Now, it feels literal.

    People once protested against it.

    Now, scientists claim they’re saving the planet

    by blocking out the sun —

    all in the name of global warming.

    Madness has become the new normal.

    And if you appear normal,

    brace yourself for mental health labels you never thought would apply.

    Brainwashing. Gaslighting. Conspiracy. Propaganda —
    all performing at their peak in this modern circus.


    The Common-Day Health Crisis

    One moment it feels like the plague
    swept the world overnight.
    The next, we’re told
    autism, dementia —
    they’ve “always been there.”
    We’re just “more aware now.”
    So put your goggles on — right?

    There is no conscious nation.

    No tribe.

    No village for each child.

    Each is for their own,

    with no time to spare.

    No time to ask the curious little questions.

    No time to simply be.

    Life is moving so fast,

    we’ve started distancing ourselves

    from our own way of living,

    just to catch a moment to think:

    How did we become like this?

    Where are we heading?

    The Solution

    Let me say this clearly:

    Everything has a solution.

    But the solution often demands

    leaving the comfort of the familiar

    for the discomfort of the forgotten.

    From the comfort of the I

    to the healing of the us.

    From disconnection to configuration.

    From digital being to human being.

    From crypto to the old-style barter.

    From algorithms to actual rhythms.

    Because life is a chain.

    What we dismiss today

    ripples into tomorrow —and touches others

    on a cellular level

    until even we

    no longer recognize ourselves.

    Or —

    we could be the conscious nation.

    Unlearn the noise.

    Reclaim the village.

    Reweave the whole.

    Remain unconventional.

    Uma love.

  • The Book, the Doctor, and the Ayah

    The Book, the Doctor, and the Ayah

    Sometimes, the reminders we need come quietly.

    The Book, the Doctor, and the Ayah: Sometimes, the reminders we need come quietly.

    Sometimes, the reminders we need come quietly. Not through grand gestures, but in soft moments: a familiar book, an unexpected conversation, a verse that finds its way to your heart.

    It started when I picked up The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, a book I hadn’t touched in nearly 25 years. One chapter in particular drew me in again — “Start with the End in Mind” — a message I was trying to drill into my husband’s mind. But, truthfully, I needed it more than he did.

    It invites you to picture your own funeral and imagine what those who knew you would say. Asking about what you left behind for your loved ones, to which one voice replies, “He left it all.”

    That line stayed with me.

    It reminded me of the reality of life: no matter how hard we work or what palaces we build, it’s all temporary. Eventually, everything fades and passes. What truly remains with us in the end is what we prepared for it. Yet as human beings, we’re often short-sighted. What we can’t see, we tend to ignore. As the saying goes, “Out of sight, out of mind.”

    And yet, some messages don’t need to shout. They whisper.

    📖 The Book

    Later that afternoon, I found myself at my local masjid for ‘Asr. After the prayer, I picked up a donated book. Inside was a verse from the Qur’an that struck me deeply. It described how the dead plead for a return to life, not to relive pleasure, but simply to do good. But they are not granted that return, because if they were, they would fall back into their old ways.

    The words stayed with me. I wanted to borrow the book, so I asked an elderly woman nearby. She gently told me the book was waqf, a charitable donation to the mosque, and could only be borrowed with permission. The process felt a bit much at the time, so I let it go.

    🩺 The Doctor

    We ended up talking instead. She told me she had just come from work, all the way from East London, where she works at a hospital. I wasn’t sure what to make of that. Given her age and the distance, it seemed unlikely. But then she reached into her bag and revealed not one, but two work badges.

    “I’m a consultant doctor at two hospitals,” she said, softly.

    I was taken aback. I would never have guessed. Clearly, appearances can be misleading.

    As we spoke, she kept trying to talk to me in Arabic. I had to keep gently telling her, Anna maa arafi ‘Arab, meaning “I don’t understand Arabic.” Though I said it in Arabic, because I truly do want to learn. In a way, I suppose I hoped saying it might help me get closer.

    She smiled and told me that’s exactly why she was speaking to me in Arabic. “If you want to learn,” she said, “you learn by speaking.”

    💬 The Ayah

    Then she paused.

    “I spent all these years learning to become a doctor,” she said. “But I wish I had started with the Qur’an. Everything I’ve learned, I now know it to be in the Quran. And what is the chosen language of the Quran?”

    My response: “Arabic.”

    In that moment, everything made sense — the ayah I read earlier, the lesson from the book, and this unexpected meeting. It wasn’t random. It felt like a message I was meant to receive.

    He grants wisdom to whom He wills, and whoever has been granted wisdom has certainly been given much good.
    And none will remember except those of understanding.
    — Surah Al-Baqarah (2:269)

    Thanks for reading — stay unconventional.

    About the Author

    I’m a writer exploring faith, modern chaos, and the path less taken. I believe stories change lives — even if it’s just one reader at a time.

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  • The Ships I Didn’t Board: “Oh god why didn’t you rescue me?”

    The Ships I Didn’t Board

    “Oh God, why didn’t you rescue me?”

    The Ships I Didn’t Board: “Oh God, why didn’t You rescue me?”

    I know what I want out of life. Every day I tell myself, “Tomorrow, things will change.” But the truth is, I haven’t taken a single step toward that change.

    My goal? To live by divine wisdom.

    The oldest books carry this wisdom. It makes no sense for me to try and reinvent the wheel — yet I struggle. I live in an environment that constantly conflicts with these values. And when you live in conflict long enough, the environment begins to shape you.

    ⚓ Life on the Ship

    It’s like being on a ship. The sailors have already set their course. Trying to steer them elsewhere feels like madness.

    Can you imagine saying, “We’re changing course,” only to hear, “Go f*** off”?

    So, you stay quiet… pretending you’re the captain.

    This metaphor isn’t just poetic. The ship and sailors? That’s my home. That’s my children. Trying to move a whole household in a new direction feels impossible.

    And yet, every du’a I make is for exactly that — to sail toward the unconventional. To live a life aligned with something higher than modern noise.

    🧭 The Signs Begin

    But why am I writing this?

    It started with my son. He couldn’t conform to the rules at school — and deep down, I understood him. Because he’s me. A younger version of the same storm.

    The first wake-up call came when I discovered a policy at his school. On the surface, it was a “non-faith” institution. But its mission and daily routine quietly pushed a hidden agenda of indoctrination — one that didn’t quite align with my beliefs.

    I was shocked to discover my suspicions were true. There, in black and white, their policies spelled out their aim to “indoctrinate.”

    I don’t mind faith-based schools — but why hide it from the public? Well, I’ll leave you to your thoughts…

    That was sign #1.

    🚑 Then Came the Nurse

    I was meant to see her for 10 minutes in A&E.

    Instead, she shared her own story — of changing the course of her own ship, just as I hoped to do with mine.

    She was deeply inspirational and refreshingly different from the usual rhetoric. She was as unconventional as they come — even when it came to her views on modern medicine.

    That was sign #2.

    🥥 The Coconut Boy

    Then I met a 16-year-old boy who had dropped out of school at 13. He was selling coconut drinks on the streets — no textbooks, no desks in sight.

    But he shared with me his thoughts on public education — and how he was already running four businesses at just 16 years old.

    He didn’t follow society’s rules. And yet, he was thriving.

    That was sign #3.

    🧱 The Builder

    Then I met the talented builder. He had moved from the US, then to Jordan, and eventually to the UK — where we met. He moved quite freely, like a bird.

    He didn’t have a large chunk of savings, but his currency was skill. Or shall I say… gold fingers?

    No school is going to tell you these truths. I doubt the teachers who teach in them even have the time to realize them.

    💔 The Moment That Broke Me Open

    Finally came the moment that broke me open.

    I was homeschooling my son — the one who “doesn’t conform.” I gave him a writing assignment.

    He ignored it.

    Instead, he wrote a joke:

    There was a man drowning at sea. He prayed to God for help.

    First came a big ship. He refused it.

    Then came another ship. He refused again.

    Then came a helicopter. Still, he refused.

    Later, when he drowned, he asked God, “Why didn’t You save me?”

    God replied, “I sent you two ships and a helicopter, you dummy.”

    And that’s when it hit me.

    All my du’as…

    Maybe the nurse, the boy, the school incident, the builder — and perhaps even this joke — maybe those were my ships.

    And I was too blind to see them.

    Maybe the help I was waiting for… already came.


    Thanks for reading — stay unconventional.

    About the Author

    I’m a writer exploring faith, modern chaos, and the path less taken. I believe stories change lives — even if it’s just one reader at a time.

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